Category: Health, Healing and Wellness

  • Lavender Essential Oil

    Lavender Essential Oil

    Lavender is one of doTERRA’s best selling essential oils. Watch this video to learn more about this powerful essential oil.

     

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  • Critical Thinking Skills for Children

    Critical Thinking Skills for Children

    I recently read an article about kids whom the judge said were “brainwashed” by a parent in a custody case.  Emotional connections to family are good.  It occurred to me that with all of us (kids or adults), our ability to be open to truth or reality can be very clouded by emotions at times.  There are things that you can do with your kids before they get into a situation where they can be manipulated by someone who knows how to take advantage of their emotions.

    To start with, empower your kids to be comfortable with thinking:

    1. Encourage them to ask questions when they do not understand something.   question
    2. Ask them questions so that you are clear when they may be confused about something.
    3. Talk with them about how they make decisions when they are with their friends.
    4. Question how he/she came to his/her conclusion.  Do they believe what they see on TV?
    5. Help your child see how things fit together logically.
    6. Be sure to nurture their skill by letting them know they are qualified to examine the details of different situations.
    7. Invite them to research facts to see if something is true.
    8. Call them to behavior that is fair and just.  Remind them of the Golden Rule:  Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.  This will help them to keep in mind other people’s feelings when coming to their conclusions.
    9. Help your children stay focused on the topic of discussion so that they can make relevant connections to details.
    10. Role Model how to think a topic through and not allow emotion to over rule logic.

    Critical thinking means making clear, reasoned judgments. It involves evaluating information to reach an answer or conclusion.  It is disciplined thinking that is clear, rational, open-minded, and informed by evidence.  Just like the skills developed on the basketball court or ball field, these need to be developed.  The earlier you can start the better.

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    Try this tip with On Guard essential oil blend for a better experience with your stinky sponge!

    One of dōTERRA’s best-selling essential oil blends, On Guard Protective Blend provides a natural and effective alternative that can help keep your family and home healthy. This proprietary blend features Wild Orange, Clove Bud, Cinnamon, Eucalyptus, and Rosemary. On Guard protects against environmental and season threats and can be taken internally on a daily basis to maintain healthy immune function.

     

  • Focus On Yourself

    Focus On Yourself

    No matter how bad things get in the world around us there is always good work to be done on ourselves.  Sometimes people can become immersed in trying to fix or save the world and avoid dealing with our own pain or flaws.  Correcting every injustice is an impossible task.  It’s usually best left to the God of the universe Who knows exactly what is going on and cares about all the injustices that are taking place a lot more than we do.  I am not saying to turn a blind eye to oppression and injustice so please do not misunderstand me.  I am also not implying that there is no need for personal boundaries.  If someone keeps poking you in the eye and ignores your requests to stop, it may be best to take a step away from their reach.  I am talking about focusing so much on others in order to avoid what needs to change in ourselves.  Sometimes people can get lost in all the things that need to change in the world around us that we forget to listen to the voice of God with regards to what needs to change in our own hearts and character.  This is a form of denial.

    In Ecclesiastes Chapters 3 and 4, King Solomon said, “Moreover, I notice that throughout the earth justice is giving way to crime, and even the courts are corrupt.  I said to myself, “In due season God will judge everything man does, both good and bad.”… Again I saw all the oppressions that are done under the sun. And behold, the tears of the oppressed, and they had no one to comfort them! On the side of their oppressors there was power, and there was no one to comfort them.”  Whether or not a person is interested in the Bible, I think everyone would agree that Solomon was a man of great wisdom.  He saw the problems in his civilization but even as a king he knew he was powerless to change all the issues of  mankind.

    Accepting the world as it is, and focusing on what needs to change in ourselves can be very freeing emotionally.  When we are able to say with confidence that we are working on the growth that needs to occur in our own lives, it is so much easier to become less entangled with the issues our neighbors may  have.

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  • Exercise and Addiction Recovery

    Exercise and Addiction Recovery

    EXERCISE:

    •  promotes the formation of blood vessels in the brain
    •  forges connections between cells
    •  enhances repair of neural tissue
    •  generates new neurons in memory-formation areas.

    Through its actions on hormones that affect the nervous system, exercise also improves TOLERANCE OF STRESS.  This is an observation that is particularly intriguing given the links between stress and drug abuse.

    How Exercise Helps the Recovery Process from Substance Abuse/Addiction

    Many who abuse drugs or alcohol neglect important components of daily health, wreaking havoc on both emotional and physical well being.

    It is important to repair the psychological and physical damage of chemical dependency as well as the damaged mind-body connection.

    Exercise in chemical dependency treatment serves many purposes, but there are some primary benefits one can get from exercise during substance abuse treatment and recovery.

    • Exercise relieves and reduces stress.
    • Exercise naturally and positively alters your brain chemistry.
    • Exercise is meditation in motion.
    • Exercise improves your outlook.

    In addition, regular exercise fosters improved:

    • Sleep
    • Greater energy
    • Enhanced feelings of well being

    All of these make life much more manageable and enjoyable and recovery that much more possible and sustainable.

    DOPAMINE AND SEROTONIN ARE MAJOR FACTORS WITH ADDICTION

    Researchers now think there are at least two systems for rewards involving the neurotransmitter, dopamine:

    • One, described as the “liking” system, is stimulated on receiving a reward, incorporating dopamine’s originally conceived role.
    • The other, the “wanting” system, motivates behavior in pursuit of a reward, which explains why dopamine rises in anticipation.

    Neuroscientists say the balance between these systems can be altered by drug abuse to the point that the wanting system dominates the liking one.

    Serotonin also plays a prominent role in the way hallucinogens act on the brain, greatly increasing serotonin levels in certain brain cells.

    Hallucinogens are serotonin “agonists,” which means they are molecularly similar enough to serotonin to dock with serotonin receptors.

    Large increases in serotonin levels have also been measured in users of ecstasy.

    Ecstasy appears to push the serotonin system into overdrive by interfering with serotonin mop-up transporters, similar to the way cocaine affects dopamine.

    Elevated serotonin causes short-term euphoria but depletes it in the longer-term. Chronic ecstasy users, for example, were found to have 50%-80% lower concentrations of serotonin.

    Aerobic exercise have a neurochemical basis.

    Exercise:

    • Reduces stress hormones, such as adrenaline and cortisol
    • Reduces immune system chemicals that can worsen depression
    • Stimulates the production of neurotransmitters, endorphins and endocannabinoids (aka feel good chemicals), the body’s natural painkillers and mood elevators.
    • Increases body temperature which can have a calming effect.

    Psychological and emotional benefits of exercise:

    • Gain confidence.
    • Get more social interaction.
    • Take your mind off worries.
    • Cope in a healthy way.
  • Skills for Recovering Addicts

    Skills for Recovering Addicts

    1.  Assertiveness ~ Assertiveness is having the confidence to say no when needed, and accepting limits set by others. It is taking responsibility for the consequences of your actions while allowing others to own their own feelings and actions. It means doing these things even if they make you unpopular or challenge you to step outside your comfort zone. In some cases, it may mean ending a relationship with someone who repeatedly disrespects your boundaries.
      Positive communication requires people in recovery to let go of familiar tactics like manipulation and replace them with assertiveness. This doesn’t mean getting pushy or demanding what you want, but rather approaching others with honesty and straightforwardness to prevent misunderstandings and to protect yourself from being taken advantage of.  Assertiveness is a skill that enables people to find “win – win” solutions to different situations.
    2. Using Positive Self-Talk and Self-Thought ~ Self-talk can affect your perspective. It can boost you up or take you down.  Self-Talk and Self-Thought are the endless stream of unspoken thoughts that run through your head. These automatic thoughts can be positive or negative. Some of your self-talk comes from logic and reason. Other self-talk may arise from misconceptions that you create because of lack of information.  Using positive Self-Talk and Thoughts are vital to manage stress and help the body maintain balance especially early in recovery.
    3. Openness ~ Openness in interpersonal communication is not only a person’s willingness to self-disclose and to reveal information about himself or herself as appropriate. Openness also includes a willingness to listen openly and to react honestly to the messages of others.
    4. Listening ~ When people give up an addiction they can spend a great deal of time talking. This is particularly likely if they join a recovery fellowship or enter group therapy. There is no doubt that talking can help people recover from their addiction, but sometimes it can be far more helpful to listen. This will allow the individual to soak up the information they need, and it can also allow them to be of comfort to other people. Listening is a skill that most addicts will have failed to develop. It is something that they will need to learn to do in order to build a successful life away from addiction.
    5. Empathy ~ The ability to understand other people is an important skill for those recovering from an addiction. Those who abuse alcohol and drugs sometimes can be highly self-absorbed and selfish. This will usually bring them into conflict with other humans. The addict may have been the source of a great deal of suffering for family and friends. When these individuals become sober it will be necessary to take a new approach to dealing with other people. Part of this will involve learning to listen and trying to be empathetic.
    6. Thought Stopping ~ Sometimes unwanted thoughts simply will not go away and we spend a lot of time and energy focused on the wrong things. Thought stopping is a simple, but effective tool for getting rid of those unwanted and unnecessary thoughts.  Thought stopping develops the mental discipline needed to consciously take control over an unwanted, unconscious behavior.
    7. Mindfulness ~ Mindfulness is the state of being present in the here and now It means being in the moment, and being in your body instead of being on autopilot.  Mindfulness allows you to harness the power of both emotional and rational parts together.  It involves not being blinded by emotionality so as to ignore logic and not being so rational that you ignore your feelings.  Mood swings are common in early recovery.  Practicing not going off the deep end in either direction is very beneficial.
    8. Distress Tolerance ~ Distress Tolerance skills are used when we are unable, unwilling, or it would be inappropriate to change a situation.  It’s important to use the right skills at the right time.  Distress Tolerance skills are used to help us cope and survive during a crisis, and helps us tolerate short term or long term pain (physical or emotional pain).
    9. Emotion Regulation ~ In recovery, emotions can frequently be very intense and labile, which means they change often. Emotions often drive behavior. A lot of behavior focuses around finding ways to get our emotions validated or to get rid of the pain in some way.  This involves learning how to regulate emotions.
    10. Interpersonal Effectiveness ~ Our interactions with other people are a common source of stress and can lead to unhealthy behaviors. Many people have spent a lifetime suppressing their own values and goals, live with anger and guilt, or living lives of quiet frustration. Much of that has to do with how we communicate with others: at home, at work, at school, and as we go about our daily lives.  Learning to assert ourselves is crucial in learning to say no, building our self-respect, and dealing with drinking or drugging situations.
  • Decision Making Styles

    Decision Making Styles

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    Certain decision making styles may be more effective in different situations.  However, it is probably obvious that the searching style is the most preferred.

    Here is a quiz you can take to determine your style.

    DIRECTIONS:
    Read each statement and then use the one (1) to five (5) point scale to indicate the
    degree to which each statement applies to you. If the statement is not at all like you, give yourself a one (1). If it is very much like you, give yourself a five (5).

    NOT AT ALL LIKE ME                                                                                                                                                                                             VERY MUCH LIKE ME

                       1

    2 3 4 5
      1. I spend time almost every day thinking about what I should do with my life.
      2. I’m not sure what I’m doing at work; I think that things will work themselves out.
      3. I have been acting according to the ways with which I was brought up.
      4. I spend time on two or more occasions per week reading and talking to others about religious ideas.
      5. When I discuss an idea with others, I try to assume their point of view and see the idea from their perspective.
      6. I don’t think about things in advance; I decide things as they happen.
      7. I’ve always had a purpose in my life; I was brought up to know what life is about and what standards to strive for.
      8. Many times by not thinking about personal problems, they just go away by themselves.
      9. On five or more occasions per week, I read and learn about economic, political, or social issues.
      10. I do not think about my future now; it’s still years off.
      11. I read about career possibilities and have talked to a lot of people trying to decide what I want.
      12. Regarding religion, I’ve always known what I believe and don’t believe; I never ask myself questions about my beliefs.
      13. I’ve known since high school or earlier that I would be working in the job that I am in and pursue the training that I have.
      14. I prefer to have one set of beliefs, and not question them.
      15. When I have to make a decision, I put it off for as long possible in order to see what will happen.
      16. When I have a personal problem, I try to figure out the situation in order to understand it.
      17. I prefer relying on the advice of a professional (e.g., chaplain, doctor, lawyer, instructor) when I have a personal problem.
      18. I prefer not thinking about my life; I just try to do the things I like to do.
      19. I prefer using my own ways of doing things to considering the ways other people do things.
      20. I try not to think about or deal with problems for as long as I can.
      21. I find that personal problems often require that I learn skills and information I did not know about.
      22. I try not to get into situations that will require me to do a lot of work.
      23. Once I learn one way to handle a problem, I prefer sticking with that way.
      24. When I have to make a decision, I spend a lot of time finding out and thinking about a number of options before I make the decision.
      25. I prefer dealing with situations where the standards are publicized and I already know them.
      26. I prefer dealing with situations where I will have to establish the standards.
      27. I do not believe problems will happen since things manage to work themselves out.
      28. When making decisions, I want to have as much information as possible.
      29. When I guess that a situation where I’m required to be is going to cause me pressure, I think of ways to get out of it.

     

    In the Score column, write the number you circled for each corresponding item. Then add and record your
    score for each category.

     

     

    Item No. Score Item No. Score Item No. Score

    4

    5

    9

    11

    16

    21

    24

    26

    28

    7

    12

    13

    14

    17

    19

    23

    25

    29

    6

    8

    10

    15

    18

    20

    22

    27

    Style 3 Style 2 Style 1

     

    Graph the totals for each category on the following chart:

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    Style 1 = Ignoring

    Style 2 = Selective

    Style 3 = Searching